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First Frank Wu Pic [Sep. 3rd, 2006|09:36 am]
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Frank Wu e-mailed me the following yesterday. Looking at it, I'm thinking this might make a good button.

From Frank: "Feel free to copy, disseminate, put on buttons/websites,
whatever (and tell others to do so, too) ... Or, if you think it needs changes, lemme know."

He'll be working on a few other things as well. Hopefully including the multi-armed alien, since that one seems to be so popular.

Click on the picture for a larger version

If you post this elsewhere, I'd ask that you credit Frank Wu somewhere. He deserves it.

[User Picture]From: trinsf
2006-09-04 01:00 am (UTC)
Someone else mentioned the Geek Social Fallacies, and I am reminded of the one about friendship being transitive. So often I have the experience of people assuming hug status is transitive. Person A comes up to a group including myself and friends of Person A. Person A hugs our mutual friends. Then Person A assumes hug status transitivity and insists on hugging me, because I'm with Person A's friends. This happens over and over at cons, so often that I've gotten used to adapting my position and body language to read No as well as err, bracing for impact.

I think the thing I say most at cons during the day time is, "Gosh, I'm sorry, I'm not a huggy person."
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From: (Anonymous)
2006-09-04 03:55 am (UTC)

"I'm not a huggy person"

I like that phrase ("I'm not a huggy person") so I'm wondering if that might be better than "Ask first, then hug", but maybe there should be an accompanying phraseology to soften it, like:

"I like you, but I'm...
just not a huggy person"
(with a picture of a cute but spikey alien.) (that might be a lot of words to put on a button along with a picture).

How about:

"I'm friendly,
just not huggy."


Also, everyone, thanks for the kind words. I really hope these images help to teach some social skills to those needing them at cons.


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[User Picture]From: alleahna
2006-09-04 04:18 am (UTC)

Re: "I'm not a huggy person"

I like 'I'm Friendly, just not huggy.' That's an good alternative to 'I'm not a huggy person'.

I like the first button, though. Well done!
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[User Picture]From: pir_anha
2006-09-04 07:01 am (UTC)

Re: "I'm not a huggy person"

seconded. both sentiments. :)
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